What if the next time you order a coffee or pizza, pick up some groceries or walk your dog... you encourage yourself to find out just a little bit more about the people you cross paths with every day? Are you up for a fun challenge this week? HECK YEAH!
Here's an easy checklist to help you start connecting right away...
#1. Smile & Eye Contact. Duh? Right? But seriously these 2 easy things really help to create a welcoming, friendly vibe.
#2. Say hello BEFORE you order or check out. ALWAYS make a personal connection first before you ask for what you need. This one is a big one for me..it really lets the other person know that you acknowledge they're human and that they're more than their job.
#3. Ask a question. Typically something that you're genuinely interested in.
Examples...Any fun plans this weekend? Did you do anything exciting this weekend? On your days off what fun things do you get to go do? Look forward to? Enjoy?
#4. Listen first. Respond second. This is where you can really connect. When you listen you show an interest in what the other person has to say. So many people don't get a chance to be heard. You can be that person even if it's only for a moment.
#5. Share something about you! They've offered something and now it's your turn.
Example: That's so cool you had a karate tournament last weekend! I've always wanted to check one out. I love kickboxing, that's my thing. Thanks so much for sharing have a fantastic rest of your shift!
#6 As Nike says so well....
It's that simple. Promise.
So you up for it? The challenge this week? To go beyond hello? I'm super excited to hear all about your stories & connections that start to happen for you...YEAH! Please share how it goes for you under the comments section of this post. Have a blast & happy connecting!
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Smiles, gia
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